Same here. When dealing with the spirit world, there are both positive and negative, you know good and bad people and spirits. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . Juno in Twelfth House. I think what really happens is too much is shared to quickly, many secrets, and hidden parts of oneself and why things often get complicated. But I still hope. Some are just hung up on their exes. I have also experienced it as not wanting anyone to know about the relationship or not knowing where you stand. There is a guy with his scorpio stellium (venus, moon, and pluto) in my 12th house, with his venus/pluto conjunct my Asc/pluto. few months later he married her. I also have a stellium of 5 planets in my 8th house so I tend to be highly intuitive already. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). Hi Sharmeen, I am very sorry, unfortunately 12th house connections can sometimes reflect deceptions, it is the house of hidden things, secrets etc.. In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. I feel like we are very secretive together though like we are very codependent on one another and thats really it ..so far .. Will you tell me what this mean in synastry? I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. 6 Keeping the Flame Alive. he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen. The 12th house person can annoy Mars because of the lack of immediate action. Im also worried he is using me on many levels and though his words and actions say otherwise, I feel that this is at least partially true. I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. He understands me in a very deep level. Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! Two+ years in most cases (which makes me want to just go HIDE in my bed under the covers, lol!) Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. why am I'm alone. I still dont know WHY that occurred . Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. Hi, Heather. Hanging onto him and wishing for return engagements may bring you much heartache, and even loss he might be a sociopath and if that is how he rolls you could lose much in the ways of material goods. Is your 12th house tenanted then? Knowflake. Cause he had to be free. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. There are two zodiac signs associated with Venus in astrology. The moment we talked I felt like I knew him since always, and when started shring some details it was like we had the same growing up, same ambitions (my Sun is in Aries, his in Capricorn). He got married, told me so and yet said that nothing will change. Yah, that 12th House synastry . I have friends and one niece with Moon/Cancer who are entirely emotional and often easily bruised, though they hide it well under their hard, decorative shells. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. Told him, but am sure he did not get it, but Im sure it made for interesting playback. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. He seemed very interested at first but the moment he felt I was getting attached he used the I am not looking for a relationship card. I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. My Neptune is in my 10th house in Scorpio and since I guess I'm what they would call a "Pluto person" since I have so many (5) planets in my 8th house, maybe that would mean something? Posts: 1873From: GeorgiaRegistered: May 2009. there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. At last i also found out that he was hidding some parts of his life. Juno in twelfth house can be a challenging placement. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! Or it can bring us confusion, misunderstandings, enhance our fears, and sometimes scare our darn pants off like when were having a nightmare. Fatherly type things like that. You can be very supportive and will enjoy much of your time alone together away from it all. W. hen someone's Venus falls in your 1st house, that person probably finds you physically attractive. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. Take the love goggles off. Men take longer to grow up emotionally. Love you, Elsa many thanks for this wonderful forum! Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. My Jupiter falls into this man, I no longer with but had a deep connection. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. The 12th House & Synastry When you have a 12th house connection in synastry and your natal planets fall in their 12th house, this can make you have difficulties expressing whatever that planet governs in the relationship (or vice versa if it's their natal planet falling in your 12th house). Hes not cold at all. My Mars,North node and Pluto(in my DC) conjunct his Uranus and Saturn in the 1st house. You must be open and not make assumptions. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. So, you can imagine what kind of connection this still is. My ex and I had our suns in each others 12th. I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. Im terribly afraid of this 12th house. so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. His Venus and Jupiter fall in my 9th house. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. Lol. Lot's of non-verbal communicating. These are people who souls we touch and theirs ours. you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, romance, values, and finances. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. The 12th house has a reputation for being connected with the hidden and unseen realms that operate behind the scenes in our lives. I have my Venus in my would-be partners 12th House conjunct his Moon along with my Sun on the cusp of his 12th, his Sun is partially in my 12th House, his Neptune is in my 5th House conjunct my Mercury, and my Moon is in his 4th House conjunct his Mercury, Mars, and Jupiter. But that energy is always in the background waiting for a chance to re-ignite. The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. But it just feels like i knew him before. It turned into something of a horror show, and although I made the decision to cut all ties, every time I would weaken and go back I would get BLUDGEONED emotionally and psychically. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. just keep on going in the OPPOSITE direction away from me as FAR AS YOU CAN!! This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). A stripping of the egos for sure! Please also note that having Venus in the 12th means very little without a lot of context. where is your Neptune? My Pluto sextiles his Moon and Venus and opposes his NN. His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. I keep reading stuff about 12th house and its scary I already have issues but like I said my natal chart is already filled with 12 house placements like sun, mercury, Jupiter, and something else and now my relationship?! I started with an other guy, who is really good for me and is a good match. His Moon squares my NN. Its unbelievably painful. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear.

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